As someone who moved to the country over 10 years ago, the stereotypes around being queer in the country get under my skin.
Iโve had my fair share of fears while driving through rural red places.ย But today I want to pick at the assumption underlying these jokes and fears that rural places are unsafe and unwelcoming for queer people.
If youโve ever typed โWhere is it safe for a trans person to live?โ into Google and felt unsatisfied with the search results โ this is for you. Because places that are marked gay-friendly aren't always trans friendly. And big blue cities in red states still mean passing through red state roads and airports. While no one has all the answers, and nobody can tell you where you'll be safe no matter one (because no one is a mind reader), there are places that are better than others. This post tracks the best states to visit if you're trans.
Launching now through November, HRC is taking to the road on an "American Dreams" tour.ย Is their red state road trip a feel-good effort that wonโt shift the narrative, or the hope we need in these times?
These seven LGBTQ outdoor groups run outdoor adventure trips for queer people. Trips range in length from day hikes to multi day backcountry trips.ย
Warnings against US travel have made headline news. How many people are actually staying away? And how much is the travel boycott going to cost the United States?
In the old days โ post-Stonewall, pre-LGBTQ rights โ we hadย Spartacusย andย Damron. These gay travel guides were packed with listings for gay bars, clubs, saunas, bookstores, and LGBTQ-friendly hotels. They helped gay travelers find safety, community, and connection in unfamiliar places.ย
As times changedโand as travel info became more accessible and digitalโthose old-school guides faded out. But the need for thoughtful, identity-aware travel advice never went away. Now, a new wave of LGBTQ travel books is stepping in to fill that gap, with a fresh take and a broader lens.
LGBTQ people deserve freedom, joy, and ease in our lives. We deserve to be ourselves, without minimizing who we are, apologizing for who we are, or pretending to be someone we are not. All of these become much more possible for us when we live somewhere our identities are respected, with laws that affirm our right to express our identities without fear of discrimination or reprisal.ย ย I haven't found a ton of resources out there geared toward folks who want to move to the safest states for LGBTQ folks โย so I built my own.
Sarah and I were newly married and trying to fundraise for two HUGE barriers I carried with me daily, and those HUGE barriers would also mean that the new cutting edge FULL BODY SCANNERS that our local Texas TSA operated would be serving full T when I tried to pass through security in my first ever international flight over the pond.ย
For years, Japan has been a curious outlier among global powerhouses, standing as the only G7 nation not to recognize same-sex marriage. But recent court rulings are sending ripples of hope through the LGBTQ+ community and their allies, raising an exciting question: could Japan finally be on the brink of marriage equality?
US business leaders have been walking back their commitments to diversity, equity and inclusion (DEI) in the wake of Trump's return to the White House. But a few businesses have doubled down on their DEI commitments โ and the NAACP's Black Consumer Advisory makes it easy to find them.