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These Are The Best States for Trans Travel in 2025

If youโ€™ve ever typed โ€œWhere is it safe for a trans person to live?โ€ into Google and felt unsatisfied with the search results โ€“ this is for you. Because places that are marked gay-friendly aren't always trans friendly. And big blue cities in red states still mean passing through red state roads and airports. While no one has all the answers, and nobody can tell you where you'll be safe no matter one (because no one is a mind reader), there are places that are better than others. This post tracks the best states to visit if you're trans.
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Gay Travel Guides Are Back โ€“ย And There’s Never Been a Better Time

In the old days โ€“ post-Stonewall, pre-LGBTQ rights โ€“ we hadย Spartacusย andย Damron. These gay travel guides were packed with listings for gay bars, clubs, saunas, bookstores, and LGBTQ-friendly hotels. They helped gay travelers find safety, community, and connection in unfamiliar places.ย  As times changedโ€”and as travel info became more accessible and digitalโ€”those old-school guides faded out. But the need for thoughtful, identity-aware travel advice never went away. Now, a new wave of LGBTQ travel books is stepping in to fill that gap, with a fresh take and a broader lens.
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Want to Move to The Safest States for LGBTQ? Here’s How to Plan

LGBTQ people deserve freedom, joy, and ease in our lives. We deserve to be ourselves, without minimizing who we are, apologizing for who we are, or pretending to be someone we are not. All of these become much more possible for us when we live somewhere our identities are respected, with laws that affirm our right to express our identities without fear of discrimination or reprisal.ย ย I haven't found a ton of resources out there geared toward folks who want to move to the safest states for LGBTQ folks โ€“ย so I built my own.